No where to turn.

Sunday, October 12, 2008
9:44 PM
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I'm going to vent here since I can't talk to anyone about this. I need to get it out so I can sleep and be able to get up in the morning;

I just got a call from a friend of mine, crying and started talking in random sentences. She kept saying he and something touching. I was able to calm her down a bit so she could tell what exactly was going on. I could feel in my stomach something was wrong when she had mentioned the first he her mumblings. Apparently she had a helper to help her move some things in her new house she'll be living in, I believe it was someone she knew because she knew quite a bit about him. A 33-year old man, married with two kids, and is in the army. From what she told me she was molested. From what she told me it was only him and her doing some of the moving and that's when it happened.

I offered calling the police or her 'second mom' but she said no, not wanting to talk to anyone. She only called me because she knew I would listen and not freak out. Even though it was hard I didn't freak out and talked it out with her. She said she would talk to someone tomorrow and called that man's wife to let her know what happen but... I'm afraid she'll back out. She does that a lot since she doesn't take care of herself very well. She lives in a bad neighborhood and her home is a bad environment as well, so most of the time she is battered in some way or form and refused to see a doctor or anything.

Ugh I just don't know what to do exactly since I need to respect her wishes of not speaking to anyone about what happened. I feel so helpless but I need to be strong for her. I really need too.

Hopefully I can sleep tonight.

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